How do I describe it? Yes, the simplest way is: life is a fairytale.
Yes, this fairytale has villains. Yes, this fairytale has
You. You get to be the main character in a fairytale. Will you be a good one, or a bad one? Are you a main character you'd like to read about? If not, become one. You get to shape your own fairytale, because you are the one who makes the choices.
Except, with this fairytale, there is no author. Will that be a blessing or a curse?
Fairytales are adventurous. Life is an adventure. Can you believe it? Sometimes I wonder how our hands work so beautifully... marvel at how wonderfully we were made. That is just part of your fairytale.
In this fairytale, there are so many bad things that happen/will happen. But that's how a fairytale goes. Keep on going, because a fairytale never ends. The author just stops writing.
Luckily for you, your fairytale has no author.